Cloth Diapering 101: Washing

Washing cloth diapers is really no more difficult than washing regular laundry! Here are some tips to get you started on the right track.

Prewashing

Prewash all new diapers at least once in hot water with a small amount of detergent before use. Unbleached cotton, organic, hemp, and bamboo diapers must be prewashed at least 5-10 times (for at least the first few times, they should be washed separately from your other diapers). Diapers will not be fully absorbent until prewashed adequately. 

Washing your diapers

• Before placing in pail, remove any solid poop using a diaper sprayer or flushable liner. The poop of an exclusively breastfed baby does not need to be rinsed - it will be rinsed away in the first step of washing.
• Set your machine to the maximum water level.
• Run your diapers through a cold pre-wash or rinse cycle.
• Wash diapers in hot water with 1/2 (top loader) to 1/4 (HE machine) of the recommended amount of detergent. Detergent should be free of dyes, perfumes, fabric softeners, and enzymes. We recommend Rockin' Green or The Laundry Tarts Detergent.
• If desired, run your diapers through an extra rinse to avoid detergent buildup.
• Tumble or hang dry. Hang in the sun to remove stains naturally. Many people prefer to hang their covers or empty pocket diapers to dry to extend the life of elastics, water-proof materials, and hook-and-loop closures.

Detergent and Urine Residue

Detergent or urine residue can cause your diapers to lose absorbency, cause diaper rash, and/or cause your diapers to retain an ammonia odour. If you are experiencing these problems, wash your diapers normally, then run your diapers through a few hot wash cycles without detergent, with your machine set to the highest water level. Adding a couple of squirts of Original Dawn dish liquid or Calgon Water Softener to the first detergent-free cycle will help remove residue. Continue hot wash cycles until you no longer see bubbles in the wash water.

Using a zero-residue detergent such as Rockin' Green and using lots of water will prevent residues from causing problems with your diapers.

You may also need to adjust the amount of detergent you are using. Too little detergent can result in urine residue (diapers not getting clean enough), while too much can result in detergent residue. When your diapers are clean, they should smell like nothing! If they smell like detergent or like urine, adjust the amount of detergent you use accordingly.

Storage of dirty diapers

Most cloth diapering families use the dry pail method, which involves storing dirty diapers in a waterproof diaper pail liner or hanging wet bag (which are machine washable), then just dumping the diapers into your machine on laundry day along with the laundry bag. We recommend owning two pail liners or hanging wet bags so that you have one to use while the first is in the wash. To use a pail liner, simply use a large garbage bin or hamper with a lid, line it with the diaper pail liner and you are ready to go!

When you change your baby, simply toss the used diaper into the dry pail. An exclusively breastfed baby’s poops do not need to be rinsed or removed in any way. If your baby has solid poops, shake the excess into the toilet, and then place the diaper in the pail. The washer will take care of the rest. For the "in between" stage of poops, consider using flushable diaper liners or a diaper sprayer to remove solids from the diaper before washing. Both are easy to use and you never have to touch ANY poop!

If using a diapering system with covers, the cover can be re-used until soiled, and just the flat, prefold, fitted, or soaker pad can be tossed in the pail. If you are using pocket or all-in-one diapers, remove the insert (if there is one), fasten the laundry tabs, and throw it all in the pail. If you are using a wool cover, see below for wool care tips.

Buying a wet-bag for when you go out makes taking cloth diapers along easy! A wet-bag is a waterproof bag with a zipper that you can stick in your diaper bag and use to store your dirty diapers while out. Just toss it in your pail when you get home and wash the wet-bag along with your diapers on wash day!

Laundry day

Most people wash their diapers every 2-3 days. Usually 2 dozen diapers is a good sized load, without being over-full. Too many diapers in a load may not come as clean and can cause friction and pilling of the fabrics. After a few loads you will figure out what works for you in terms of length between washes and how full to fill your machine.

Dump your diapers and the diaper pail liner/wet bag into the machine. Do a cold or warm rinse cycle before washing to avoid setting stains or smells. Then do a hot wash cycle with about 1/4 to 1/2 the amount of detergent you would normally use for clothing. After washing either tumble-dry or line dry. Line drying outdoors in the sunlight will save energy, plus remove stains and make your diapers look new! Try it and see for yourself! To avoid stiff diapers, set them out on the line during early morning or late afternoon hours when they will not dry as fast. Line drying your diapers will also extend their life - although everything can be thrown in the dryer together as well if you cannot line dry or just don't have time!

Many people like Rockin Green, Allen’s Naturally detergent, Original Tide, Country Save, Sunlight, other biodegradable detergents, and many others. Find what works for you!

Avoid using detergents with whitening agents as they can break down diapers and cause skin irritaion. Also avoid using baby detergents such as Ivory Snow or Dreft, and avoid ultra concentrated detergents as they can cause build-up..

If you find your diapers are holding a bad odour, try doing an extra, hot rinse cycle after washing to remove detergent build-up, which is often the cause of odours. If odours or rashes persist, consider switching to Rockin' Green Detergent which is free of residues which cause laundry issues! Visit our Smelly Diapers FAQ for more info!

Avoid using bleach on your diapers as it will eat away at the fibers of your diapers leaving holes and affecting absorbency. It also can irritate your baby's skin.

Avoid using fabric softener as it can cause your diapers to repel liquid rather than absorb. Really, when it comes to washing diapers, keep it simple! Using more than one product can lead to buildup or other laundry problems, plus it can make it hard to troubleshoot if you do have issues down the road.

Wool Care Instructions

Using and caring for wool diaper covers can seem intimidating but is quite simple in reality! Using wool has many advantages which you can read about here. Most wool covers will come with washing instructions from the retailer, however here are some general instructions for wool care.

Wool covers only need to be washed when they are soiled – wool has natural self-cleaning and anti-bacterial properties due to the lanolin it contains. If your wool cover is wet after use, just hang it to air out before using it again. If the urine smell does not fade when dry or if the cover is soiled, then it’s time for a wash. Plan to wash your covers about once a month.

Wool covers also need to be lanolized about once a month (with regular use). You can wash and lanolize at the same time. Follow these instructions, but omit the lanolin if you want to wash only.

• Rinse your wool cover in cold water if you need to remove any poop.
• Run your sink water until it is HOT.
• Plug the sink and put a small glob of Lanolin at the bottom along with a small glob of wool wash or baby shampoo. Lanolin is available in most baby stores/Walmart in the section for products for nursing moms. You can also purchase Eucalan no-rinse wool wash which replaces both products.
• Run a bit of hot water over the Lanolin and soap to melt it. Mix well.
• Fill the sink the rest of the way with lukewarm water. Add the wool, gently squeeze the water through the wool, and then let it soak for 15-20 minutes.
• Drain the water and roll the wool up in a towel to squeeze out the excess liquid. Then hang or lay flat to dry. That’s it!

Cloth Diapering 101: Types of Cloth

​​Every family has a system or combination of systems that works best for them. It really depends what you want from your diapers (for example, economy, ease of use, cuteness). Here is an explanation of each system with their features.

Prefolds

Prefold diapers are rectangular pieces of absorbent cloth that have several layers. Most prefolds are either 4x6x4 or 4x8x4, which indicates the number of layers on each side and in the super absorbent thicker strip down the middle of the diaper.

Prefolds can be secured either with Snappi diaper fastener, or simply folded and laid into a diaper cover, which is then fastened onto the baby. Prefolds require a cover because they are not waterproof.

• Prefolds are one of the most economical ways to diaper. 
• Some would argue they are the easiest to launder as they do not need any special care like folding or the removal or stuffing of inserts. They also dry quickly.
• You can choose which type of cover to use, PUL or wool (read on…)
• Prefolds are a two-part diapering system meaning you need to use a diaper and a diaper cover.
• Prefolds don’t have a lining to wick moisture away from the baby’s skin, although you can add a micro-fleece liner inside the diaper for this purpose.
• Prefolds are pretty plain as far a cloth diapers go, although some people like to dye or embellish them.
• Prefolds are available in preemie, infant, and toddler sizes.

Using Prefolds:

Start by prewashing your prefolds at least a few times in hot water. They will quilt up, and become more absorbent with each wash.

There are many ways to fold prefolds:

Tri-fold and place inside a snug-fitting diaper cover. Then fasten onto your baby. The cover will contain any poop blowouts.

The poop-pouch fold - lay the prefold on the table and place baby on top. Fold the front of the prefold up between baby's legs letting the diaper bunch up between baby's legs to form a pouch. Fasten with a Snappi or pins. Use a cover to make this system waterproof.

Cover prefold with a diaper cover for a waterproof system. Some parents of older babies like to use a prefold Snappied without a cover to let the bum get some air - just change your baby once he/she feels wet.

Washing prefolds couldn't be easier! Shake solid poop into the toilet and toss it in the dry pail (exclusively breastfed babies' poop can go straight into the pail). On laundry day dump them in the washer - then either tumble dry or hang in the sun to get stains out and save energy. There is something so serene about a clothesline full of prefolds drying in the sun!

Here's a little video to learn how to fold prefolds. I've used this myself. I refer the jelly roll fold for my little guy.

Fitted Diapers

Fitted diapers are contoured cloth diapers which generally resemble disposable diapers in that they have a contoured shape and have gathered edges around the legs, and fasten with either Aplix (velcro) or snaps. However, as with prefold diapers, a waterproof diaper cover is necessary.

• Fitted diapers typically cost $10-20 or more a piece, depending on the style and material. Fitteds can be made from cotton, bamboo, or hemp.
• Fitted diapers tend to be better at containing messes and preventing leaks than prefolds due to elastic leg casings. Many people use fitteds for overnight for this reason
• Fitteds are a two-part diapering system meaning you need to use a diaper and a diaper cover. You can choose which type of cover to use: PUL, wool or fleece.
• Some fitted diapers don’t have a lining to wick moisture away from the baby’s skin, although you can add a liner inside the diaper for this purpose if you prefer.
• Fitted diapers are available in sized or one-size designs.
• Fitted diapers are available in plain, coloured, or printed designs.
• Many parents will put a fitted on their baby without a cover or pants while at home and then change whenever they become wet. This is a great way to let baby’s bum get some air (like on hot summer days!) and can help prevent or cure a diaper rash.
• Fitted diapers often take longer to dry in your dryer or on a clothesline than prefolds - although many have soakers that snap or flip out to decrease drying time.

Pocket Diapers

Pocket diapers are a two-piece diapering system typically with a piece of fleece that makes up the inner portion of fabric, and a waterproof outer layer. An absorbent material (such as an insert or a prefold) is placed inside of the two pieces, making the whole system act as an all-in-one system that keeps babies dry. Pocket diapers are available with Velcro or snap closures, depending on your preference.

• Most pocket diapers require that you remove the insert before laundering.
• Pocket diapers are available in sized (XS, S, M, L or Size 1/Size 2) or one-size versions which can fit babies from birth to potty learning – these can be a great way to save money. See our FAQ on choosing between One Size and Sized Diapers for more info.
• Pocket diapers are available in many cute colors and prints!
• The absorbency can be customized to suit your baby’s needs. For example, a great nighttime solution is to double stuff a pocket diaper with two inserts for extra absorbency. Others like to add a doubler to the pocket to boost absorbency when needed.
• Pocket diapers have a quick drying time since the absorbent insert is removable for laundering. It's easy to extend the life of your pocket diapers by hanging the empty pockets to dry while drying the inserts in the dryer. This preserves the integrity of elastics and Aplix closures.
• Pocket diapers are very babysitter and grandparent-friendly! They can be pre-stuffed out of the dryer so they are ready to use at changing time.

All-in-One Diapers

All-in-one diapers are exactly that: A waterproof outer and absorbent inner all in one! These are available with snaps or Velcro fasteners. These diapers are ideal for out-of-home use, as they are very similar to disposables.

• The absorbent material is sewn directly into the diaper – no need to stuff pockets or remove inserts before laundering.
• All-in-one diapers are very babysitter and grandparent-friendly.
• All-in-one diapers take longer to dry in the dryer or on a clothesline than pocket diapers
• Some All-in-one diapers do not allow for customizable absorbency, although you can add a diaper doubler to the inside if you like. Many brands have a pocket opening to add extra absorbency if needed! 

*Some Diapers are really "All in Two" Diapers which means that the absorbent soaker is removable. This helps cut down on laundry plus saves money because more soaker than covers can be purchased and you can re-use the cover when changing the diaper (just change the absorbent part)!

Cloth Diapering 101: Myths

Today’s cloth diapers are very different from the diapers our parents and grandparents used. If the thought of using pins, plastic pants, and dirty wet pails is turning you off of using cloth diapers, read on! I’m going to address some of the nasty rumors that are out there!

1. Disposable diapers are better for the environment because washing cloth diapers wastes energy, water, and soap.

Disposable diapers are far more harmful to the environment than cloth diapers. First of all, stop and think about the amount of energy, water, wood, oil, etc. that goes into manufacturing and shipping disposable diapers. Plus, disposable diapers can take 100-500 years to decompose. That means every single disposable diaper we have used since their invention in the 60s is still sitting in a landfill somewhere. And guess what is sitting with them… human waste! It is illegal to throw human waste into the garbage – disposable users are required to throw poop into the toilet before trashing the diaper but how many people aren’t doing that? Then there is the packaging from each pack of diposable diapers, and don’t forget the dangerous chemicals leaking into the ground water from landfills and the manufacturing process: dioxin, sodium polyacrylate (the absorbant gel), and TBT or Trybutylin, which is ranked by the WHO as one of the most toxic substances used in consumer products in the world today.

2. Cloth diapers are hard to wash.

Not true! Laundering cloth diapers is no more difficult than washing your regular laundry. There is no need to soak diapers in a wet pail, dunk them in a toilet, or scrub them. The washing machine takes care of all the work for you! Click here for my blog on washing your diapers.

3. Using cloth diapers will make my home smell bad.

Not true! Most parents who have used both cloth and disposable diapers agree that disposable diapers stink far worse than cloth diapers.

4. Cloth diapers leak.

Cloth diapers have come a long way! Cloth diapers are made from very absorbent materials such as cotton, hemp and even bamboo. Most diapers and covers have elasticized leg gussets for holding in leaks. Cloth diapers are totally customizable also, meaning that if you need extra absorbency for overnight or a long car trip, you can add an extra absorbent insert or doubler.

If your new cloth diapers are leaking, this could be because they haven’t been pre-washed enough. You’ll find that your new diapers become more and more absorbent after each wash. Pre-washing in hot water will help your diapers reach maximum absorbency.

5. I have to use a nasty wet pail.

Not true! I do not know any cloth diapering parents who soak their diapers in a wet pail. Most parents choose the dry pail method which involves tossing your dirty diapers into a washable, waterproof pail liner. On wash day just dump the contents along with the liner into the washing machine. No poop soup necessary!

6. Cloth diapers are too expensive.

Not true! Cloth diapering is much more cost effective than using disposables.

***Going to post comparison chart here soon***

7. Cloth diapers are hard to use- I don’t want to have to use pins.

Cloth diapers today are easier to use than ever! The only people I know who use pins do it for enjoyment and not out of neccesity (I have yet to understand the love with using pins, myself…). Check out our products – Our diapers are elasticized and use fasteners such as Aplix (Velcro) or snaps. Prefold and flat users have alternatives to pins also. Prefolds can easily be folded in three and laid inside a snug-fitting diaper cover. Also available are Snappi’s a little clip instead of using pins.

8. Cloth diapers will give my baby a diaper rash.

The percentage of (American) babies who experienced diaper rash in 1955 (before disposable diapers) was 7.1%. In 1991 it was 78%! Cloth diapers allow your baby’s skin to breathe and heal more quickly. This helps prevent and treat diaper rash. Cloth diapers are also free of the many skin-irritating chemicals that are found in disposables. Some might argue that disposables are better for baby because the absorbent gel (ew) wicks moisture away from baby's skin. Well, this is a problem for two reasons: one - parents change their babies less often, facilitating the growth of bacteria, which causes diaper rash, and two - the super-absorbent gel also pulls baby's natural skin moisture away along with the urine, which also causes skin irritation. If babies could talk I believe they would ask for cloth diapers! Would you want to wear paper underwear (wearable garbage) full of chemicals? Not me!

9. Cloth diapers have to be dunked in the toilet.

Not true! A breastfed baby’s poop can go straight into the diaper pail and then into the wash with not rinsing required. For a baby with more solid poop, shake the excess into the toilet and place in the pail – the washing machine will take care of the rest. You could also purchase flushable liners on a roll to place inside the diaper. Then just lift it off and toss in the toilet. Ensure that, whichever diapering system you choose (cloth or disposables), you flush the waste down the toilet. The instructions on disposable diaper packages advise you to flush the solid waste before tossing the diaper in the garbage.

10. You have to change cloth diapers more often.

How often you change your baby’s diaper is up to you. Adding absorbency to the diaper will allow longer stretches in between changes. Many diapers have microfleece liners which provide a dry barrier in between the absorbent cloth and the bum so that your baby’s skin stays dry (you can also purchase these liners to lay inside those diapers that don’t have them). Some parents (myself included) like to change baby more often anyway, whether using disposables or cloth. I feel that just because a diaper can go 3-4 hours between changes doesn’t mean that your baby should have to wear it for that long. Every baby is different and you will find the diaper changing routine that works for you!

Cloth Diapering 101: Why Choose Cloth?

We know that new and expecting parents have an overwhelming number of decisions to make when it comes to the well-being of their babies. Choosing whether to use reusable cloth diapers or disposable diapers is just one of the decisions that needs to be made. We understand that the abundance of information on cloth diapering combined with the variety of styles and brands can be confusing and intimidating for an expecting family. We hope that the information provided below will help simplify cloth diapering and enable you to make the best diapering decision for your baby and your family.

Savings

Based on 8,000 diaper changes from birth to potty training you can expect to spend between $2,300 to $2,800 on disposable diapers and wipes. In contrast, cloth diapering your baby can cost as little as a few hundred dollars. Using these figures, you can save up to $2,500 by choosing to use cloth diapers and wipes. Proper care and use will extend the life of your cloth diapers and allow for further savings by using them on additional babies.

The #1 reason customers chose to use cloth diapers was for the financial savings. (Based on Thirsties’ 2012 Customer Survey of 720 cloth diapering families)

Use the Savings Calculator to see how much you can save by using Thirsties cloth diapers.

Healthy for your baby's skin

Disposable diapers contain various toxins such as Tributyltin, Sodium Polyacrylate, Volatile Organic Compounds (VOC’s) and trace amounts of Dioxin. Your baby’s delicate skin functions as a sponge and what we put on it goes in it.

Thirsties uses low impact reactive dyes and processes that are eco-friendly. No heavy metals, toxic substances, or environmentally destructive practices are used in dying our fabrics. All Thirsties products are PVC (vinyl), phthalate, and lead free.

The second most important reason our customers chose to use cloth diapers was because they are healthier against their baby’s delicate skin. (Based on Thirsties’ 2012 Customer Survey of 720 cloth diapering families)

Environmental Impact

Disposable diapers generate sixty times more solid waste and use twenty times more raw materials than reusable diapers. Disposable diapers are the third largest contributor to our landfills and will remain intact for 500 years.

Style

With the available variety of styles, colors, and prints you can customize a diaper stash that fits your baby’s personality and your budget. Thirsties offers over a dozen fun colors and several adorable prints to fashionably compliment your baby’s style.

Convenience

With cloth diapers, there are no late-night trips to the grocery store for more diapers, no emptying your diaper pail into your already full trash bin, no pins and no rubber pants. With sturdy and easy-to-use closures cloth diapers go on your baby just as disposables do but with oodles more cuteness and style.

98% of our customers think that using cloth diapers is easier than they thought or about what they expected. (Based on Thirsties’ 2012 Customer Survey of 720 cloth diapering families)

Fewer blowouts

Cloth diapers contain blowouts far better than disposables. You can sleep soundly knowing you won’t be up during the night changing outfits, bedding, or bathing your baby.

Cloth Diapering 101: Cloth Diaper Terms

Sizing

Sizing can be different from one manufacturer to another but will usually fall into one of the following categories.

One Size

One size diapers are meant to fit babies from birth to potty training. In general, one size diapers will not properly fit smaller newborn or preemie babies, leading to a gapping diaper and leaking. Many manufacturers who produce a one size diaper also offer a preemie or newborn line to ensure a proper fit for your newborn.

Two Size

Two-sized diaper systems are designed to effectively diaper your baby from birth to potty. In an effort to maximize the fit and affordability of cloth diapering your baby, Thirsties created the Duo line of products. Size one fits babies between 6-18 lbs, and size two fits babies from 18-40 lbs. Each of the two sizes in the Thirsties Duo line feature three rows of snaps to adjust the rise to your baby’s shape, it is like having three sizes in one.

Sized

Sized diaper systems offer a specialized fit for your baby, but each size covers a narrower range than that of a Duo or One size system. Thirsties Diaper Covers are part of a sized system and are available in four sizes, x-small, small, medium, and large.

Components

Hook and Loop Closures

Hook and loop closures make diaper changes quick and provide an amazingly snug fit. Although hook and loop closures are the most convenient closure option, they have a shorter lifespan than snaps. Thirsties products use Aplix(R) brand’s hook-and-loop system which is made in the USA and is regarded as the most durable on the market.

Snap Closures

Snaps are easy to use, are more durable than hook and loop and are strong deterrents to toddlers who prefer to be diaper-free. Snaps are also used throughout the Duo line on the adjustable rise.

Gussets

Gussets are a crescent-shaped inserts added to the leg openings of many cloth diapers for added performance and expansion. Thirsties signature leg gussets move with your baby, providing advanced protection against leaks.

Fabrics

PUL

No stuffy plastic or rubber pants! PUL provides a very reliable, pliable, and breathable yet waterproof outer layer for Thirsties’ covers, wraps, and diapers. PUL stands for polyurethane laminate and is made from extremely durable polyester knit to keep your baby and his or her clothes dry.

Microfleece

A soft, napped wool-like fabric made from synthetic fibers. Microfleece fabric does not absorb, but rather allows moisture to pass right through, which is why it is often used as the layer closest to your baby’s skin. The microfleece layer provide a ‘stay-dry’ effect for your baby’s comfort. Microfleece can help to reduce diaper rash, resists staining, and is buttery soft to the touch.

Hemp Jersey

Hemp jersey is as soft as your favorite t-shirt but is more durable than pure cotton of the same weight and absorbs 25% more moisture! By using hemp, you are able to gain a substantial amount of absorbency without adding a tremendous amount of bulk to your diapering system. Thirsties hemp jersey is one of the softest and most durable available in the market. It is used in Thirsties prefolds and inserts.

Microfiber Terry

Our synthetic microfiber terry is used throughout our line as a soaker due to its performance characteristics of being highly absorbent and quick drying.

Cotton Velour

This velvety fabric is a cotton/poly blend that is absorbent, luxuriously soft and custom knitted and dyed to Thirsties specifications. It is used in Thirsties’ fitteds, doublers and wipes.

Cloth Diapering 101: What do I need to get started?

The number of diapers to purchase is based upon your budget, your diapering choice, and how often you will be laundering your diapers. The recommendations below are based on the assumption that you will be doing laundry every other day.

How many daily diaper changes should I expect?
Newborn: 10–12 diapers
6–12 months: 8-10 diapers
12–24 months: 6–8 diapers
24+ months: 4-6 diapers

How many diapers will I need in rotation?
Newborn: 20–24 diapers
6–12 months: 16-20 diapers
12–24 months: 12–16 diapers
24+ months: 8-12 diapers

How many covers do I need?
A wrap or cover can be wiped clean and reused several times before requiring a full washing. Most people recommend one wrap for every 3-4 diapers in rotation.

Do I have to purchase new diapers?
NO! You can purchase gently used diapers from maybe stores and online shops! It's definitely worth it to save a few dollars.

What accessories do I need?
I recommend purchasing 2 pail liners, a cloth diaper friendly diaper ointment, 1 wet bag, 3 dozen cloth wipes, 1baby wipe solution mist, cloth diaper friendly detergent (I use TIDE Original Powder in my HE machine), 1 diaper sprayer (optional), and wool dryer balls if using the dryer. If line drying, you may want to purchase a clothes line or a drying rack. I also recommend a 3 pack of snappis if you are using prefolds!

Cloth Diapering 101: Accessories

Inserts
Inserts are used to add absorbency to a diapering system. Inserts can be placed between the diaper and cover or stuffed into the pocket or sleeve.

Diaper Ointment
It is very important to choose a baby ointment that is cloth diaper safe. Many traditional diaper ointments contain petroleum or other ingredients which coat fibers and cause diapers to repel.

Reusable Wipes
Are a great alternative to disposable wipes and can save you up to $500. Pair with a baby wipe solution for the best results.

Baby Wipe Solution
When using reusable wipes you will want to purchase a baby wipe solution to properly cleanse and moisturize your baby’s skin.

Wet Bag
A great accessory for your diaper bag used to either enclose clean or soiled diapers. Wet bags come with a closure system to keep odors from escaping.

Diaper Pail
The use of a diaper pail is necessary to keep odors at bay while storing your baby’s soiled diapers until laundry day. 52 quart garbage pails with a lid are a popular choice but any large container with a closure will work.

Pail Liner
Washable liners are designed to fit your diaper pail and be thrown in the wash with your soiled diapers. Pail liners are waterproof and designed to keep odors sealed within.

Diaper Sprayer
A hose with a nozel that is attached to the plumbing of your toilet and is used to cleanse poop from soiled diapers. Diaper sprayers aren’t typically necessary until your baby begins to eat solids.

Cloth Diapering 101: Thirsties' Types of Cloth

There are different styles of diapers to meet the needs of each individual family and baby. All babies are shaped differently and have different absorbency needs so one type of diaper may work better for your baby than another. In addition to fit and absorbency, many families may also compare convenience versus cost. For example, an all in one or pocket diaper may be more convenient, but a two piece system is typically less expensive and can be more absorbent.

All In One

All In One, commonly known as AIO, is the most similar type of cloth diaper to a disposable diaper. The one piece system consists of a waterproof cover with the absorbency sewn inside.

Thirsties Duo AIO includes a signature tunnel design which allows for thorough cleaning and stuffing of additional absorbency as needed. The interior is lined with a stay-dry fleece to keep baby comfortable and dry. The soaker (absorbency) is made of microfiber terry.

To use: Simply slide the diaper under baby and fasten with hook and loop or snap closure.

Pros: Convenient, easy, quick, daycare and sitter friendly, great for diaper bags, can be paired with insert for additional absorbency

Cons: AIO’s may take longer to dry than other diapers, may need additional absorbency for heavy wetters or extended, overnight use.

Pocket

A pocket diaper is a 2 piece system consisting of a waterproof outer shell sewn together with stay-dry lining with openings on one or both ends. The sleeve or pocket that is created is used to stuff the included absorbent insert.

Thirsties Duo Diaper (our pocket diaper) comes with a waterproof shell with a stay-dry lining sewn into it. The openings on both ends make for easy stuffing while allowing the insert to easily agitate out of the diaper in the wash. The inserts feature two layers of serged microfiber terry snapped together with five serged layers of hemp jersey; seven thirsty layers in all!

40% of our customers chose pocket diapers as their favorite type of cloth diaper. (Based on 2012 Thirsties Customer Survey of 720 cloth diapering families)

To use: Secure the insert within the tunnel or pocket, slide the diaper under baby and fasten with hook and loop or snap closure. You may find it easier to stuff the inserts into the diapers right after washing and drying, so that your diaper is ready for use.

Pros: Convenient, adjustable, daycare and sitter friendly (when inserts are pre-stuffed), absorbent

Cons: Bulkier than other diapers, need to stuff inserts into diaper after laundering

Fitted

Fitted diapers are made from absorbent fabric that is tailored to fit, providing complete coverage around your baby. Fitted diapers require the use of a diaper cover to make it waterproof. The use of the fitted diaper and a cover provides two elastic barriers at the legs and waist to prevent leaks.

Thirsties Duo Fab Fitted includes a signature tunnel design which allows for thorough cleaning and stuffing of additional absorbency as needed. The interior is lined with a stay-dry fleece to keep baby comfortable and dry. The soaker (absorbency) is made of microfiber terry.

To use: Simply take the fitted diaper, slide under baby, and fasten hook and loop or snap closure. Repeat steps with the diaper cover.

Pros: Ultra absorbent, soft, comfortable, can be paired with insert for additional absorbency

Cons: Bulky, long dry time, higher cost, 2 piece system that must be paired with absorbent layer

Prefold and Flat

Prefold and flat diapers are what most people think of when cloth diapering is referenced. Prefolds are popular for their affordability and are the most common diaper supplied by cloth diaper services. Using prefolds or flats requiring folding the diaper and then covering it with a waterproof diaper cover. Snappis are a popular closure used to secure prefolds and flats.

Thirsties Duo Hemp Prefold’s revolutionary tunnel design provides a trim fit and is beneficial for better washing and quicker drying times. Our custom hemp jersey is incredibly soft and knitted right here in the USA. We do not recommend the use of diaper pins or Snappi fasteners with Thirsties Duo Hemp Prefolds as the fabric is knit and the sharp points on the fasteners may damage the fabric. We recommend trifolding our prefolds.

To use: Fold the prefold into thirds, and lay into a trim waterproof cover such as the Thirsties Duo Wrap or Thirsties Diaper Cover, and fasten hook and loop or snap closure. For added absorbency in the front for little boys fold the prefold down on top and then trifold.

Pros: Very absorbent, durable, soft, versatile, affordable

Cons: Takes extra time to fold

Stay Dry Duo Insert (exclusive to Thirsties)

Thirsties Stay Dry Duo Insert is a specialty that has two layers of our fast absorbing microfiber terry, topped with our stay-dry and stain resistant microfleece and snapped together with five layers of our buttery soft hemp jersey. Use the insert with a trim fitting cover to provide a snug fit.

To use: Lay the insert into the diaper cover, slide the insert and cover under the baby, and fasten hook and loop or snap closures.

Pros: Easy, quick, absorbent, affordable

Cons: Less coverage than a prefold or fitted diaper

Cover and Wrap

Covers and wraps are waterproof barriers that are used over fitteds, prefolds, specialty inserts, or flat diapers. The laminate inside of the diaper can be wiped clean between uses, allowing you to use the cover for 3-4 diaper changes before washing.

Thirsties offers our Diaper Cover and Duo Wrap as waterproofing options for your cloth diapers. The Diaper Cover comes in 4 sizes, has a generous cut, and the x-small features an umbilical cord cut-out. The Duo Wrap uses the duo sizing system and offers a trimmer fit.

To use: With the absorbent layer fastened on baby or placed inside the cover, slide cover under baby, and fasten with hook and loop or snap closure.

Pros: Light and pliable, double leg gussets, easy to use

Cons: 2 piece system that must be paired with absorbent layer

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First 6 Weeks After Baby

Today is 6 weeks since the birth of my second child! It has inspired me to sum a few things. Once you have give birth you're filled with excitement. After about 40 weeks of waiting (which felt like it was never going to end) you get to hold this wonderful little miracle in your arms and imagine that picture perfect image in your head of you and your partner smiling down at baby in awe. Well, after a few hours the real "fun" begins.

Breastfeeding

Once you have baby you get to start the loving journey of breastfeeding. You look down if you're a first time mom and panic a little bit sometimes. What do I do, do I just put my boob in his/her mouth? Is she/he breathing?! Am I doing it right?! With the help of a good (I don't mean OK, I mean damn good!) lactation consultant, you can have all your questions answered. Just ask the hospital or birthing center to have them pop by your room ASAP to ease your worries. They can show you how to get baby to properly latch on, show you a few positions that will work for you (C section moms can try football clutch to avoid pressure on their incision), and they can show you how to hand express some colostrum. They can also bring you a breastpump if you need and show you how to use it as well. Getting into a good routine is very important. 

The first few weeks really are the hardest and as long as you stay calm, try to drink a lot of water (like 8 ounces before every feeding), and get as much rest as you can, then you CAN be successful at it. Once you get baby latching on well you may notice after a few weeks (maybe even up to the first month) that your nipples are toughening up. The first days you may experience cracked, sore, even bleeding nipples. Don't be discouraged! Breastfeeding should not feel painful while the baby is nursing, if it does then simply remove baby by sliding your pinky into the corner of their mouth and breaking the suction. Then readjust and get baby back on. Sometimes it takes a few (or several tries) to get the baby to latch on and stay on. You can start feeling nervous like you're not doing it right or worried. Just take a deep breath and relax. This happens to all mothers. Your new baby is learning to eat for the first time just as you are learning to breastfeed for the first time. Neither one of you are pros at it, even if it's your second or third child! Until your nipples "toughen up" you will notice that anything touching them can HURT! Getting out of the shower and using a towel, OW! Even the shower pressure can hurt! Breast pads rubbing inside your nursing bra, OW! Wearing a bra in general... OUCH! It's going to pass. It may last a few weeks but WILL go away! I also recommend using Bamboobies washable nursing pads. The disposables can lead to thrush which is like a yeast infection in your baby's mouth and on your boob! EXTREMELY PAINFUL and requires medical attention and antibiotics. Remember to change nursing or breast pads often to avoid thrush and no one wants to walk around with wet boobies all day.

For more on breastfeeding please see my other post "Breastfeeding 101" on my blog.

Baby Formula

Some mothers choose not to breastfeed or think that they can't. If they don't want to be pressured into it that's fine. Just make sure you let the doctors, nurses, and your spouse know what your feeding plans are for the baby and that you want to stick to it! When baby is born, usually a feeding is offered at about 15 mL to see how much the baby will take. Usually a routine is established by spacing out babies feeding every 2-3 hours the first few days. If baby's been sleeping for 3 hours and you don't want to wake them up to feed ask your partner to do the next feeding so that you can rest. Nurses in the hospital will give you a chart to monitor how many wet/poopy diapers baby is making and to track the times of the feeding with the amount given. Your baby's doctor will help you to determine how much formula to give at each feeding and how often. You DO NOT want to give baby too much formula. Eating to the point where they are turning their heads away, spitting up, or falling asleep is NOT a good thing. Each time they eat until the point in which they are full, they are expanding their tiny little stomaches beyond what it can hold. Another sign that baby is full is taking too long to finish a bottle. Many parents think I poured X amount into the bottle and baby needs to drink the whole thing. This is NOT correct. Baby may not be fully hungry or it may just be too much at that time. Let the baby drink until you notice the suckling slow down drastically. If baby begins to give long sighs between swallows, that may be another sign that they are finished with that feeding. Just because you pour 2 oz DOES NOT mean baby will drink it all and that is perfect OK! Also, if baby doesn't finish all the milk in the bottle, DO NOT save it. You must pour it out and give a fresh bottle at each feeding.

Sleep when baby sleeps

We've all heard that. As I first (and second time) mother I kind of shrug it off... A LOT! Then I regret it later. When baby is sleeping my first thoughts are "Now I can shower, let's wash baby clothes/bedding/blankets/everything that's pooped or spit on, or let me just cook and eat something "real quick." Pretty much every time I go to do these things I feel like kicking myself shortly afterwards. The main reason is that after having a baby YOU NEED REST! It's no joke, you are tired, a little slower than usual, and sometimes really sore! Your body as just gone through something that is has never experienced before (unless you have more than one child) and needs time to recover.

Especially mothers who have had C sections. Over doing it, ANYTHING really can cause you to pop your stitches and that can be VERY dangerous. If you have had a C section you can't drive, lift anything besides your baby (which even I could barely do), or vacuum. Yes, vacuum random I know but the movement really works your midsection and can cause some serious damage. Try to have your spouse take off the first two weeks after baby or have another family member assist you during that time. Every time you finish a feeding just try to sleep a little. Don't worry about the dishes, what's for dinner, the laundry, or how untidy the house is. You just had a baby and it's perfectly FINE! No one makes rude comments to a new mother about maintaining the home within the first few months even. If someone does... simply tell them that you're too focused on what's important (bonding with your baby) to care about such a simple task that isn't harming anyone. If they are uncomfortable, they can leave.

Visiting the new baby

"She had the baby?!?! I've got to go visit." Most non-parent girlfriends have this thought. Parents know that the new mom needs some time and it can wait a couple weeks or months. Especially this day in age. We have social media and they can see the baby through photos or video chat! I know I didn't want anyone breathing all over my precious little baby who was barely able to keep it's eyes open. If you do want friends and family to come visit, simply ask for them to bring a dish for dinner or pick up something for you and the spouse to eat. MOST people do this already but for those who haven't thought of it, it's not rude. I would pretty much DEMAND it. "Oh you'd like to come see the baby? Sure but bring a pizza (or KFC or something quick and easy! maybe even cookies since you know you won't be baking anytime soon)." Most friends do ask do you need anything? If you do, don't be afraid to say it! For a new mom you can forget to pick up all sorts of things. If you're friend/sister/mother wants to pick up some baby bottle nipples for pads for you don't be afraid to tell her you need them! If you are a little weird about asking just say "Would you mind picking me up XYZ and I promise you first picks when the newborn portraits come in!"

When you do have guests visiting you and your new little family, don't be offended if they start doing any of the following: cooking, cleaning, vacuuming, sweeping, mopping, laundry (yes even your undies!), or dusting. They KNOW you don't have the time or energy for this and would do it if you could. Most moms just come and over and do it for you because they know that you would do the same, and will when they have their next child! Make sure to thank them endlessly and let them know that their help was greatly appreciated. Also, as a little side note: when you are healed... a great thank you is giving them freshly baked goods, a gift card to their favorite store or restaurant, or having them over for dinner.

Bleeding

Once you have the baby from that moment for the next [up to] 6 weeks, you have lochia. lochia is the vaginal discharge after giving birth (puerperium) containing blood, mucus, and uterian tissue. Lochia discharge typically continues for 4 to 6 weeks after childbirth. It is sterile for the first 2–3 days, but not so by the third or fourth day, as the uterus begins to be colonized by vaginal commensals such as non-hemolyticstreptococci and E. coli.

It progresses through three stages:

1. Lochia rubra (or cruenta) is the first discharge, red in color because of the large amount of blood it contains. It typically lasts no longer than 3 to 5 days after birth.
2. Lochia serosa is the term for lochia that has thinned and turned brownish or pink in color. It contains serous exudate, erythrocytes, leukocytes, and cervical mucus. This stage continues until around the tenth day after delivery. Lochia serosa which persists to some weeks after birth can indicate late postpartum hemorrhaging, and should be reported to a physician.
3. Lochia alba (or purulenta) is the name for lochia once it has turned whitish or yellowish-white. It typically lasts from the second through the third to sixth weeks after delivery. It contains fewer red blood cells and is mainly made up of leukocytes, epithelial cells, cholesterol, fat, and mucus. Continuation beyond a few weeks can indicate a genital lesion, which should be reported to a physician.

Now during this time it is recommended that you only used heavy flow pads. Well, I recommend ONLY using overnights with wings the entire time! Better safe than sorry. If you bleed too much it will go through all your clothing and no one wants that embarrassment. Also, some women bleed for less than 4 weeks and others all the way until their postpartum check up. Either way make sure you only use pads and NEVER tampons during this time. Once your periods resume (which is you are breastfeeding they may not return until you stop) then you may use tampons again. Doctors will also tell you to make sure to NOT have sex until at least 6 weeks after birth. You can get pregnant even if breastfeeding and once you attend your 6 week check up you can discuss birth control or planning your next child.

So you made it through the first 6 weeks after having your beautiful new baby. Now what?

Once you get the all clear from your 6 week check up, you can resume all normal activities. You can start exercising, resume all household chores, have sex, and if needed go back to work. I personally believe in spending that first year home with baby (or at least 6 months) but that's because I live in Canada and we have a year of maternity leave and our husbands get paternity leave as well (paid of course). Now you know some of the things to expect during the first six weeks after having a baby.

Baby Basics. A place to sleep, clothing, and diapers.

When it comes to having a baby, whether it's your first child or not, you can get a little overwhelmed in the search for baby gear. Now we all know baby's need a place to sleep, clothes to wear, and of course diapers. Just these items alone can break the bank if you aren't sure what you really need. Here are some tips. Keep in mind that these are just my opinions and it's because I'm on my second child and have a little bit of experience.

A safe place to sleep

As far as a place to sleep goes, in the first few months (I want to say up to about 6 months or before they sit up unassisted), baby does NOT need a crib. I know every mom pictures herself coming home from the hospital and placing that beautiful newborn into her own crib with a super cute bedding set in her fabulously decorated nursery. Whelp... unless you have an extra room for baby, which many parents do, then image that big ol' crib squeezed in your bedroom (maybe living room). Not the ideal image of that dream nursery but do-able. A little bit more realistic of a choice is getting a bassinet (which holds baby until he/she can start to push up on to the elbows or starts to roll over), or a pack n play. Personally, I have both but prefer putting Kaleb into the pack n play, which I'm currently using as a bassinet, to sleep.

We were given ours from my father in law as a gift. It's the new Lion King 100% washable playard. Yes, you heard that right! The whole thing unzips and can be thrown right into our washing machine. GENIUS! Why didn't they think of this 4 years ago when I had Layla. So many times she's spit up or drooled all over that thing and I'd think to myself, "How am I ever going to clean the top rail, netting, and mattress cover?!" Anyway, it comes with the changing table, has a bassinet that can be lowered to the bottom to become a playpen, and of course a little storage. I'm using my Graco pack n play sheets from Layla's old one on this model even though it's a different brand. They are usually all the same size mattress pad, lucky for me. Best part about this little item is, baby can use it up to 24 months old, or when he/she starts to climb out.

Clothing

Now as far as clothing... YES, we all want baby dressed in the cutest outfits. Really though, if you really think about it, they outgrow clothing the first year of life like you wouldn't believe! Just stop to think about all the sizes you can buy for a baby. No, seriously... they have a lot and they are outgrown any where between 8-12 weeks at a time. Here's the sizing chart for my favorite brand of baby and toddler clothing, Carters.

As you may have noticed, some "well grown" babies are born wearing size 0-3 months right away. Heck both my children were 8 lbs and some change. They wore newborn for like a week and then I could barely snap the bottoms because they were too tall and plump. 

Carters, which just bought out OshKosh B'Gosh makes some really cute clothing and they are the known by other names at other stores. You can find their clothing at Macy's, Babies R Us, Marshall's, TJ Maxx, Ross, and Winners (Canada). In Target the line of clothing is called Just One You by Carters and in Walmart  Child of Mine by Carters. Remember though, baby clothing can be costly. A set of 3 pieces, onesie-pants-jacket can be $15-20. THAT'S JUST ONE OUTFIT! If you've got a messy baby you could go through 3 outfits a day and 2 PJs at night! For a first time mom, I think I'd recommend buying a 3-5 pack of onesies in each of those sizes above (starting at 0-3 months of course!), a couple pants, shorts, and skirts or dresses. As far as coats, jackets, and sweaters go, I'd have two in 6 months and two in 12 months. It's ok if the sleeves are a little long, but really hold up all the sizes together it's the smallest difference in size from a 3 to 6 month or 9 to 12 month! It's insane. Now, what about baby shoes? I knew you'd ask. I have one for each size but really my baby is 3 months old and has only worn shoes twice... until they start walking, what's the point? Most of the time it's just socks that work for us. The good news about that is socks come in size 3-12 months or 12-24 months, so they last a long time!

How can I save money on baby clothing?

Saving money on baby items, especially clothing should be a job for me. I'm good, like really good. I stalk the sites for all those store for sales, coupons, seasonal changes (for buying a year later's size like 18 months on sale!), and of course clearance. However, my favorite store in the world is Once Upon A Child. They buy and sell gently used baby items and clothing. They pay you cash for your outgrown, stain and tear-free clothing and shoes. Since baby's outgrow clothing so fast (my baby at two months was wearing size 3-6 months), you can find A LOT of things that look brand new! I love to go to there stores and get clothing and shoes for my two kids. They sell newborn to kid's size 12. If you're really luck you can get brand new items with the tags still on for $2.00-$5.00. Perfect example, I got Layla Air Jordan's for $8.00 and they retail for over $40.00! I would definitely recommend getting a lot of clothing from them, or maybe some local consignment stores.

DIAPERS!!

When it comes to what kind of diapers, which, brands, and what sizes are needed, new moms can get a little overwhelmed. I'm not for or against cloth vs disposables (well maybe a little one way more than the other). When it comes to you and your family, it's all about money, time, and support. With my daughter she used Pampers (Swaddlers then Cruisers) from birth to potty training. That's when we switched her to Huggies Pull Ups. I tried a pack of Huggies but this is what happened all the time.

This is a diaper explosion.

They happen, there is NO WAY TO AVOID THEM. But just imagine this TIMES TEN when I used Huggies brand. It was down her PJs legs, up her whole back, in her sleeves, and up into her hair! Not so fun at 3 AM when you're trying to change a baby in the dark for a late night quiet feeding. You have to wake them up and bathe them, rinse out poop from the clothing, wake up half the house, and cry a little because you haven't slept since you were in your second trimester. It's ok though, just remember one day their children will repay the favor. Now as far as size, just read the box. It's got the weight range listed on the side. I wouldn't recommend a large Costco size box of size newborn though, but definitely in size one. Speaking of Costco, or BJ's Wholesale... great stores for diapers at formula (if you need it) at a great cost. 

With my second child, however, I started with cloth diapers. Now, I don't want to go too into this but... really ask yourself if you like to throw money away literally? I sure didn't with Layla. Cloth diapering is a great option! Ultimately, you have to decide why one diapering method works better for your family, your child and your wallet. There are pros and cons to each, and whatever your reason for using cloth (saving money over the course of your baby's diapering years, fewer diapers in landfills) or disposables (far less interaction with poo, never worrying about having enough diapers washed and ready to go) -- you shouldn't feel guilty about a choice that works for you.

I will write a blog about cloth diapering in more detail soon, stay posted.